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Things to Consider For the First-Time Home Buyer

Nov. 15, 2018

Things to Consider For the First-Time Home Buyer

Deciding to buy after you have been renting for a while can be one of the most daunting tasks of your life. There is so much to consider and paperwork that you need to have ready it can all feel so overwhelming. Having an experienced realtor will come in handy especially one that you are comfortable with. If for any reason at any moment you don’t feel comfortable, get a new realtor. Getting things together early is the key to make buying your first home easy. I would suggest that you start getting things together as early as possible. At least six months in advance if not the moment you decide to buy. There may be a little work on your part that you need to do.

Lifestyle and Market

Knowing where you are wanting to live is super important. Maybe you are wanting to have the farmhouse lifestyle and head out west somewhere. Of course living the low-country lifestyle is always popular and with the Charleston real estate market you will certainly find several homes that meet your needs. Whatever you decide is the best lifestyle for you make sure you discuss it with your realtor. They have the knowledge and tools to help you have that lifestyle.

Your Credit Score

You need to know what your credit score is. All three credit bureaus are required by law to give you a free report once a year. Make sure you get a report from each one; Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion. There are some online programs that you can use who will give you a report from each one.  Having these reports will help you see what a potential lender will be looking at. Are there loans on there that need to be paid off first? Your lender can help give you advice on things you need to clean up on your reports or even ways to help increase your score.

Things to Consider For

A Budget

Understanding your income and debt-to-income ration will help you determine how much home you can afford. I would suggest that you figure up what your mortgage would be each month and add it to your other regular monthly bills. While a lender doesn’t calculate your phone bill, electrical bill or even your cable bill I would suggest you do. The reason is that you will see your total monthly bills versus your income and know better what you can afford. Having a budget will help you see things in black and white about what you can and can’t afford.

A Down Payment and Closing Costs

You will need to save for a down payment. A good rule of thumb is to save 5-10% which is what most conventional loans require. Of course you also need the closing costs. While you may can negotiate to have them paid by the seller chances are you will be responsible for them. Having the money saved for home owners insurance and inspections is always helpful. Any money saved that you don’t need can be added to your down payment thus possibly lower your monthly payments or used in making the actual move.

Organize Your Paperwork

Having all the paperwork you need ready at a moment’s notice will help not only you but your lender as well. You won’t have to waste time searching if you have already done the search. Assemble and organize the following:

  • W-2s or Business Tax Returns if Self Employed: Government loans require two years worth of returns while conventional loans require one. I would suggest have two years at least of everything regardless.
  • Personal Tax Returns: Again I would recommend two years of returns
  • Recent Pay Stubs: If you have six months of these great.
  • Credit Card and Loan Statements: The last two or three (again six months is always better)
  • Bank Statements: The last two or three (again six months is always better)
  • Previous and Current Addresses: You need at least two years so this is where your bills will come in handy
  • Retirement Account Statements: if you have any

Shop Around

You don’t have to settle on the first lender that you come to. Shop around for interest rates. You may be surprised as to where you end up getting your low. Talk with the loan officers, get an understanding of what they can and can’t do for you. Ask questions! When you finally decide on your lender you need to know that you are confident in your choice. That you did all the research you needed. If you don’t understand something ask them. Trust me you will be glad you did.

Buying your first home is a lot of work but you will learn so much. In fact after your first one it will get much easier. Having everything prepared will make the process easier. You can get pre-approved from your lender and then use the letter they provide to help your realtor show you homes only within your price range. Take your time, look at all the homes that interest you, then enjoy the new home that buy.

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Comments

  1. Dana Rodriguez says

    November 15, 2018 at 4:01 pm

    These are great tips to remember. We are looking to buy a home in the next year or so. Super helpful information!

    Reply
  2. Barrie says

    November 15, 2018 at 9:40 pm

    Great tips! After owning a few houses, I now know to look at the crawlspace, the walls, etc.

    Reply
  3. Veronica Lee says

    November 16, 2018 at 7:35 am

    Buying a home is a big decision. Thanks for the great advice.

    Reply
  4. kayley says

    November 16, 2018 at 10:57 am

    I’m still solidly in the renting bucket of acquiring shelter, but someday i’ll consider buying a home. this is a useful article – particularly the list of documents to gather.

    Reply
  5. Christine A. says

    November 17, 2018 at 7:17 am

    PinneD post for reference, thanks for the tips.

    Reply
  6. Sara Zielinski says

    November 17, 2018 at 10:16 am

    These are great tips for a first time home buyer

    Reply
  7. Mary Beth Elderton says

    November 17, 2018 at 10:57 am

    Good advice…even for those of us who have bought a home. The experience can feel overwhelming. Thanks!

    Reply
  8. kristen visser says

    November 18, 2018 at 10:37 am

    shopping around is so important!! we made the mistake of not doing that with our first home and were only there for 2 years because it was everything we didn’t want in a home we kinda just jumped on the first thing we saw

    Reply
  9. Katy says

    November 18, 2018 at 7:41 pm

    We bought a home twenty years ago, but now live in California. Its our dream to own a homw here, but the market is crazy right now. We have everything ready to go if we find a place. This is a great list of stePs to take before buying.

    Reply
  10. Shirley Emitt says

    November 19, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    Great advice for buyers, it is a bit over whimming.

    Reply
  11. alessandra vercelli says

    November 20, 2018 at 8:26 am

    we also sell it to buy a house

    Reply
  12. Mary Withrow says

    November 21, 2018 at 7:37 am

    GETTING YOUR CREDIT IN ORDER SHOULD BE FIRST, DOING SO WILL GIVE YOU MANY MORE OPTIONS AND LENDERS.gOOD SOLID ADVICE, THANK YOU!

    Reply
  13. Natalie says

    November 21, 2018 at 4:10 pm

    I just bought my first home a couple years ago and it was a lot more involved that I had ever thought!

    Reply
  14. Debbie Yoder says

    November 22, 2018 at 5:08 pm

    Thanks for the tips and advice,there is alot involved in home buying!

    Reply
  15. Ali says

    November 22, 2018 at 9:59 pm

    These are wonderful tips, we just purchased our first home a couple years ago and i agree with these helpful tips.

    Reply
  16. Judy Thomas says

    November 23, 2018 at 4:27 am

    Excellent advice! There are so many little things to remember when buying your first home.

    Reply
  17. Marilyn Nawara says

    November 23, 2018 at 12:26 pm

    Good tips. Getting pre-approved for a mortgage is imperative. you need to find out how much you can afford and it will save time once you find a home.

    Reply
  18. Jana Leah says

    November 23, 2018 at 5:17 pm

    There are some great tips here. Especially to ask questions.

    Reply
  19. Kelly Hanley says

    November 23, 2018 at 6:33 pm

    Super helpful tips right here! Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
  20. Sharon Braswell says

    November 26, 2018 at 12:02 am

    Really Great tips!! I actually prepared myself with most of these including my credit report years ago when we bought our first house!

    Reply
  21. LeAnn Harbert says

    November 26, 2018 at 1:28 am

    These are all good tips to keep in mind.

    Reply
  22. deb pelletier says

    November 26, 2018 at 1:32 am

    I would love to own a home, but it is a lot of paper work and a lot of work to take care of a house

    Reply
  23. Elizabeth Miller says

    November 26, 2018 at 8:41 am

    Good tips, however, one thing, if you have small debts like medical bills, etc that may be on your credit report, speak with a mortgage lender before paying them off within month os purchasing. Once they are paid off, it does affect your score initially and sometimes not in a way that helps intially.

    Reply
  24. wen budro says

    November 26, 2018 at 3:40 pm

    Those are some solid tips. Being organized- and having this knowledge beforehand- makes the entire process easier and less stressful.

    Reply
  25. Casey Garvey says

    November 26, 2018 at 3:44 pm

    Id never knew how much a credit score could effect you until I wanted to purchase my first home. My advice is to always be cautious of it!

    Reply
  26. Tamra Phelps says

    November 28, 2018 at 2:04 pm

    This is good advice.People can be overwhelmed by all the unexpected details, paperwork, etc., when it comes to buying a home.

    Reply
  27. Sarah L says

    November 29, 2018 at 1:48 am

    Very good tips. I was a first time home buyer 30 years ago. Now my house is paid off.

    Reply
  28. Mary Gardner says

    November 30, 2018 at 8:37 pm

    These are GREAt tips! i agree that shopping around is important because when you spend that kind of money you don’t want to settle for something you won’t be happy with.

    Reply
  29. Leah Shumack says

    December 5, 2018 at 2:58 pm

    These are some great tips!! Things I wish I would have known 17 years ago when I bought mine!

    Reply
  30. Stephanie Ann says

    March 15, 2019 at 12:38 pm

    Thank you for sharing these tips! My sister is about to buy her first house.

    Reply
  31. Amy Pollard Woolard says

    March 21, 2019 at 9:17 am

    These tips are great!! I wish we had these when making the decisions on buying a home a few years ago.

    Reply
  32. Karen Propes says

    March 27, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    We own our home now, but we are looking again and it’s been 25 years since we purchased. Thanks for the information.

    Reply
  33. Dorothy Boucher says

    April 17, 2019 at 1:44 pm

    I have a daughter who is going through this now, wish it was me, But as a mom, i’m super happy for her and her family, I can see its taking a bit, almost a year now, but she won’t settle for anything until it captures her heart and needs. Great information here and shared.
    @tisonlyme143

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  34. Rosie says

    June 9, 2019 at 8:49 am

    This is good information. It has been decades that as fairly young people we had bought a property, and didn’t know the best way to go about it. Lessons don’t need to be learned the hard way, and you don’t want to have to spend more than you have to, either!

    Reply
  35. Sandra Preti says

    June 27, 2019 at 12:06 pm

    Thanks for all these tips! It can be an overwhelming process.

    Reply
  36. Rosie says

    November 29, 2019 at 10:18 pm

    These are good suggestions. I like that you bring up adding in all the other monthly expenses to see how you feel about how much it can actually cost on a regular basis, more than what you might think!

    Reply
  37. Mary Gardner says

    January 5, 2020 at 3:12 pm

    These are all important tips to follow. The one that really was a big help to me was having all of my paperwork organized.

    Reply
  38. Mya Murphy says

    June 23, 2020 at 2:13 am

    My mom was a real-estate lady..and I knew most of this.. Wonderful post!!

    Reply
  39. Melinda says

    June 29, 2020 at 3:43 pm

    I really appreciate you taking the time to write this post. I’m going to pin it to pinterest !
    This post is super helpful, you have things listed I hadn’t even thought of .
    This should be a must for anyone getting ready to house shop.

    Reply
  40. bn100 says

    May 20, 2022 at 4:16 pm

    useful tips

    Reply
  41. Eva Millien says

    August 7, 2022 at 7:05 pm

    Really great advise, thanks for sharing it with me and have a sunshiny day!

    Reply
  42. Bea LaRocca says

    May 5, 2023 at 9:19 pm

    Great tips for a first-time home buyer, I will pass the post along to my youngest son who is looking to buy his first home soon

    Reply

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